Submitted by: Kim
Our family has shared our journey in a blog. Grant was an amazing son, brother,uncle and friend. Our family will never be the same with out him.
Submitted by: Lynn Stauder
My Tribute: To my daughter Krystle, 28 years old and a mother of 3 year old. I want to help in the cause of drug overdose. Either by volunteer, education, meet other parents going through the loss of a child. Krystle didn't know she was going to die, she had her and her daughters Halloween costume laid out, even though it was over a week away.
Submitted by: Connie Sanderlin
My Tribute: My boy Billy was a tough guy on the outside, but a soft, momma's boy, deep inside. He got mixed up with the wrong people and couldnt seem to get loose. I miss him dearly. I think a piece of me died on the day he did as well.
Love you always Billy
Submitted by: Dan McPhail
My Tribute: In loving memory of my first son Todd McPhail, a kind, loving, funny, warm hearted spontaneous and briliant MRI techician in 5 of the nation's best hospitals and the best son a man could have. He had Bi Polar and chose to treat it with alchohol and opiates instead of a doctor "doctors will kill you dad" he'd often say. He mixed Zanax, Roxycontin and vodka at midnight November 19, 2012 and 4 hours later died i pray peacefully in his sleep, ending my life as i knew it as well. It's been l3 months and i still can't believe he's gone. I know he would want me to know he's sorry for the pain he's caused everyone from his mom and i to the 5 year old little girl Savannah who will barely remember how kind and loving a dad Todd was--to his only brother Troy whose grief is beyond belief. Psychologists say the sudden death of any child is the most traumatic event that can happen to a human being, and it almost killed me. And as the people in this organization know, when its accidental overdose the guilt and anger are beyond description, but i've forgiven Todd and i refuse to feel guilty. Two astounding coincidences: twice in the month before he died, Todd said to me "dad, you've got to get TROY help or he'll die of addiction". And FOUR HOURS before he died the VERY LAST WORDS he said to us were "i hate Heather, my little girls mom--she won't let me see Savannah; sometimes i wish she were dead" and i swear to god my wife's last words to him 6 hours before his death were "don't say that Todd--God might take you for saying that". I think what hurts worse is not being to say goodbye, that i'll take care of everyone you loved todd; that i forgive you; that since mom almost died with you in childbirth every day of your 37 years was a bonus; that you were the most fun, enjoyable, loveable, spontaneous affectionate and caring person i ever knew; that you were everything i wanted in a son; that's what hurts the worst. But as your mom said "you know Dan, he doesn't know he's gone; to him it's midnight Nov. 18 2012 and always will be. He's in no pain and no one can hurt him. And he'd have never done it on purpose; he just forgot how many he took". And the only reason i don't feel worse is that he was not an unhappy person; always a smile, always up; just the temper flareup bi polar folks have but rarely depressed. Such as waste of a beautiful man. Todd was only 5 feet tall but was a big man to me---a compassionate medical tech that patients and doctors loved; a terrific brother and uncle; as close to perfect as a young man can be. So, since i spent 25 years as a broadcaster and run a mobile dj service, i'm joining the Lapeer Chapter of this organization to speak to young men and women in hopes i can save one. Biggest irony: three years before his death ANOTHER of Todd's friend's od'd on Oxy and alcohol and at his FUNERAL Todd said "you don't have to worry dad--that'd never happen to me--i'm too smart for that". PS: gOD BLESS this organization--no other support group cares or understands. My son Troy and i discovered Todd's body at 8 am 4 hours after his death and if you want to know pain my friend that is it. I wouldn't wish the pain of losing someone healthy to accidental OD on my worst enemy. And to the bastards at Purdue Pharmaceutical who continue to make the poison called Roxy and Oxy contin, may you burn in hell. Dan McPhail, Burton MI
Submitted by: Dorthi DiGilio
My Tribute: Dean is missed so immensely by so many people. We miss Dean's strength, humor, caring, and just how he lit up a room with the sparkle in his eye. Dean lived life fearlessly. He battled Cystic Fibrosis, depression, and addiction with everything he had. Ultimately Dean took his own life because he saw no other way to end the battle. Life with out Dean is something that I, his mom, will never adjust to. I somehow have the strength and courage to go on each day because I know that is what Dean would expect from me. I know Dean is guiding me everyday. Dean was extremely talented mechanically and loved riding and working on his motorcycle. He also was a high achiever in mixed martial arts. Dean loved his family very much and his dogs Buster and Nala.
Submitted by: Jeanette Schneider
My Tribute: Kim was a beautiful, kind, gentle soul who struggled with mental illness and addictions. Combining my efforts with others who have lost their children to problems such as these, I hope to make a difference and perhaps save other children who are struggling in life with the same issues.
Submitted by: Theresa Burke
My Tribute: Ben was my son--a shy, humble young man who battled heroin addiction bravely and openly.
He did everything humanly and spiritually possible to get well, but the disease took him after a 5 year battle. His family does not believe his overdose was an accident. He gave up. He was exhausted and depleted and had just completed 6 months clean. He had restored everything that mattered most...his friends, family and his God. Rather than risk losing everything again, he killed his addict with his favorite weapon--heroin. Ben never had a choice after the first time he tried it. His words: "My brain is wired to kill me." Heroin took his body but not his soul. May God forgive anyone who says that a heroin addict deserves to die. Would you say that to a person fighting cancer? It is the same. Ben didn't want to die, but dying became a better choice than living one more day as a heroin addict. Thats how much fun he was having! I miss my son so much, the grief still takes me down like a grenade when I least expect it. I admire Ben's courage and faith. On the morning he died he went to church and to his favorite AA meeting, he had been praying the rosary for months and had gone to confession. He called us to say goodbye, but we didn't realize what he was preparing to do. He came home to die while we were on vacation. He died on Palm Sunday 2012. His body laid on my kitchen floor for four days before it was found. We continue to heal as we realize that all of our prayers were answered, just not in the way that we thought! Ben is clean and whole and finally free.
Submitted by: Devin Giroux
My Tribute: Josh was my beautiful, kind, funny, loving little brother. He was clean for 8 months when he decided to use one last time. The loss of him is unbearable to me, the rest of my family & his friends. He left behind his parents, 3 siblings, a girlfriend, a dog that loved him, friends who became family, and 4 loving grandparents. At his wake and funeral, people I had never even seen before were coming up to me telling me stories about things Josh had done for them. I hold on to those memories. Because although he was an addict, he was a good person. You have to be born like that. The world is forever lacking now that he is gone.
Submitted by: Cynthia
My Tribute: My beautiful son Andrew.
His life ended on 12/24/13, a heroine overdose.
He was a joy and a blessing. He made everyone laugh - he was a good hearted man, caring and compassionate
To know him was to love him.
Submitted by: Auntie Karen
My Tribute: My niece Cassie died from an overdose of heroin, far away from home, at the apartment of a misguided relative. We will never know the truth of how this happened or the violence she suffered before her passing. Praying for peace for my sister, Cassie's mother, as well as for all of you.